I told all this to my big brother and said that all we can do as individual human beings in the discharge of our moral responsibilities to other individuals and to our species wholly is to take the teachings of our parents, our teachers, our societies, our religions--and think critically about them!--and every day look ourselves in the mirror and pledge to do right as we are given the light to see right. I thought that was pretty good too (and my brother agreed).
But just now, I recalled something Nikki Giovanni has often said, that if a Martian were to ask her what she was she would not answer with "woman" or "American" or "Black" since those would not be utilitarian notions to a Martian (very pragmatic). Professor Giovanni would answer, "earthling." Pretty good. I wasn't completely sold since I am a species-ist, I do discriminate against cows and cockroaches. I think they're "inferior". So clearly what would be more satisfactory to me would be the answer, "homo sapiens" (or whatever the hell the state of the art taxonomic term is). Description is not prescription however. Both Giovanni's and my own more exclusive description put human beings behind what John Rawls called a "veil of ignorance". But why? Because if we didn't know if we were male or female or Black or white we would construct an ethical system that hedged our bets--"No slavery, nah-ah! I may be Black!" Once I got on Rawls I knew I was going down a bottomless rabbit hole.
And then I thought, "Why do we even have to be having dinner conversation or phone calls about such questions?" Isn't this the "bottom line"? "Do unto others as you would have them do unto you." There may be some question of moral philosophy that the Golden Rule does not answer but I'll be a dumb bunny if I know what it is.