Friday, July 07, 2017

The Ideal

All of us, I think, have partly conscious, partly unconscious (we know it when we see it) desiderata for our attraction to other people. Blue eyes, or tall, dark and handsome, or blonde with big tits, "built," or "ripped"--it starts with physical attributes for we are an ocular species. Loyalty, kindness, machismo, "prospects," prospects for material success, are personality specs that may confirm or override, if we are not blinded by our vision, the physical.

For as long as I have had an Ideal there has only been one: understated beauty--"pretty", tall, thin, smart, accomplished, dignified, "WASPy,"/"aristocratic," depth of soul. So yeah.