Hey...Ad here right now, last 15-30 mins:

Why Men Fall in Love
9 Powerful Words You Can
Say That Remind Him Why He
Needs You.

I should like to establish a baseline assumption as a precondition to consideration of what those 9 words might be. The precondition is the ad is aimed at women not men. Okay? Agreed?

Sex. Oh, don't get all huffy on me now, every FRIGGING straight guy who sees this would say the same thing. But that would be the same for gay guys.

Good sex. A little redundant...Leave me alone.

I can't, man, I'm too tired, I can't complete this.

Song Binbin would not be one of them. Or two of them.

Why did I start this?  I'm going to sleep, with NO thoughts of love, or sex, or Song Binbin. I hope.